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SHANAH TOVAH!!! שנה טובה!!! With the new year, comes a new entry. 2 months in 1 entry again. I'm catching up, just 2 months to go!
**Note that when you see 2 asterisks (**) it means that I'm adding comments based on the fact that today is September 25 - ג' תשרי and a lot happens in 2-4 months, some of which applies to stuff written in this journal.
Month of Sivan-Tamuz 5766 - חודש סיון-תמוז תשס"ו (May 28 - July 25, 2006)
Sunday, May 28 - א' סיון: I read the Torah this morning for Rosh Chodesh. I also did some cool stuff on my project today, opened a bank account with a different bank that supposedly is free and gives me a 100 shekel gift and more - they came to my school and it sounded good. (**I haven't actually looked at the account much, but I'm -13 Shekels already.) I helped an ESP guy with his internet project for a while too. I played softball tonight - it was 5 on 5 so I had a lot of at bats. I think I was 8-11. No one kept score really. I played 3rd. It was a fun night.
Monday, May 29 - ב' סיון: I love PHP. I discovered more crazy image editing filter functions. My project is starting to come together. I forgot it was Memorial Day so I didn't listen to Randy Johnson's best start in a really long time.
Wednesday, May 31 - ד' סיון: My close friend from the old neighborhood and high school, Michael Mondrow is here! He landed today and is staying by me through Motzaei Shabbat. I ordered 2 of 3 plane tickets for summer vacations, and got a haircut, among other things in town.
Thursday, June 1 - ה' סיון: I did a lot of pre-holiday/Shabbat shopping this morning, on a transfer card (kartis ma'avar) thatIi got by with even though it expired 10 minutes before I got on the bus back. I got Marzipan rugelach hot out of the oven and a sort-of-cheese-cake-thing, then pitot hot out of the oven from the shuk. Back in Givat Mordechai, I picked up a Pollard banner and walked around looking for apartment listings.
Thursday-Shabbat, June 1-3 - SHAVUOT - ו'-ז' סיון: I had a very nice Shavuot and Shabbat with Mondrow! We davened, ate at Machon Lev Shavuot night with ESP and Rabbi Geller, and learned all night. I did the Tikun myself while listening to Rabbi Geller's shiur on Shavuot, Sefira, generations and leaders, and civil marriage - all very interesting. I led the walk to the Kotel for Vatikin, [Zecher L']Aliyah LaRegel, a special experience as always. We got a nice minyan with some Yeshivah, met so many people. After davening, we got Kiddush and snacks from Chabad and the Machon Lev high school. We came back and slept until lunch, which was at my cousins with adorable baby Yosefi. That was very nice. We came back and slept until Minchah, Kabbalat Shabbat, Ma'ariv, dinner at Machon Lev, oneg Shabbat with wine by me and cholent by my roommate. On Shabbat morning (no longer Shavuot in Israel because this is where the month is decided - no need for 2 days out of doubt), I davened at Gruss (we read Parshat Naso), then I ate at Mondrow's cousins. That was very nice, followed by some Set and cards - we taught card games to Israeli kids, which is always fun. (We taught them Set during my 1st year in Israel.) We came back to Machon Lev, took a brief nap, then Minchah, and I learned while Mondrow heard Naso read at Gruss' 2 day Yom Tov Minchah. Then we walked to my co-madrich, Ben's parents for a great Se'udah Shlishit, with lots of singing, Torah, and watching sunset over Jerusalem, followed by Ma'ariv, Kiddush Levanah, and Havdalah on the porch. Tonight, after helping Mondrow take stuff out, I listened to the Yankees win in 10 innings.
Sunday, June 4 - ח' סיון: El Al's office closed on time, but I came 3 minutes late so I still only have 3/4 of my flights this summer booked. Today was the hottest day so far this year. 90-95ish in Jerusalem. Tonight I listened to Arutz-Sheva's broadcast of the Salute to Israel Day Parade Concert, featuring Except Saturday (my friend Jeremy's band). It was a lot more entertaining than listening to the Yankees get crushed.
Monday, June 5 - ט' סיון: The heat wave continues - it was over 95 today, maybe even 100. We lost power for 20 min, but that wasn't as bad as other places that lost power for a lot longer. 1 person was killed in a traffic accident because a light lost power. I proctored a test for an hour. I reserved my 4th and last, but soonest, plane ticket today. Motza"Sh / Sunday morning 22 sivan - 6/18, which gets me in about 7 hours before a friend, Amichai's wedding. And another friend is engaged! Mike Tewner from Machon Lev!
Tuesday, June 6 - י' סיון: Supposedly (I hope!) today was the last day of the heat wave. I did a lot of work on the project today. Why is it that every apartment is either only for families or not ready until August, during which I intend to be in America?!? I have another possibility, thanks to a friend (Amichai), that I have to call tomorrow. **I looked at it, but didn't end up taking it - see below. It looks like 7 weddings bet June 18 - Sept. 12, then another in November. I found out today that 1 is the day I land in Israel with Nefesh B'Nefesh. For those who are supersticious, today wasn't Satan's day 06/06/06, it was 10 Sivan 5766 - 10/03/66 or 03/10/66.
Wednesday, June 7 - י"א סיון: The heat wave is over! I beefed up security on my site like crazy, with some help from my roommate.
Thursday, June 8 - י"ב סיון: I was at an engagement party for another Machon Lev ESP Belgian - Avi Gutfreund. It was a pretty fancy party, at the Dan Pearl, what you'd expect from a Belgian. It was nice. Then I walked back via Kikar Safra (City Hall Plaza) with some friends and took pictures of them there. I got my El Al ticket stamped today, and found out the flight # and details about when my Nefesh B'Nefesh flight is leaving.
Friday, June 9 - י"ג סיון: Today was the Yavneh Olami ATID program final banquet BBQ and tiyul to the Kever of Shmuel HaNavi (grave of the Prophet Samuel) with Yishai of Arutz-Sheva. (See last entry for details about the place.) It was a fun morning, gorgeous day, breathtaking view, 2nd time I've been there in 3 weeks after not having been there in almost 8 years.
Shabbat, June 9-10 - י"ד סיון: I had a very nice Shabbat in Ramat Beit Shemesh at my my Yemenite American friend, Ezri's house. His mom is a great cook, we were up late last night talking, played an intense game of scrabble today, fun, and relaxing.
Sunday, June 11 - ט"ו סיון: No softball game or project meeting today, just some old journal catching up (**almost there :-)), looking through and panoramizing old pictures (Colorado vacation), talking to parents and friends, and listening to the Yankees lose.
Monday, June 12 - ט"ז סיון: I did a bunch of favors for friends instead of working, then I had a headache so I watched an old Israeli classic movie, Chagigah Besnooker, instead of working. I made some phone calls that needed to be made though.
Tuesday, June 13 - י"ז סיון: A shidduch agency came down to Machon Lev this morning. I went and got interviewed. It seems that they will do a better job than the shadchan that came down 9 months ago - they were more organized, asked more and better questions, and have a website. I finally added the preview feature for my editing page for the final project.
Wednesday, June 14 - י"ח סיון: I went to Bar Ilan University tonight to see my friend Ilya, and 3 other friends, perform the play, The 3 Musketeers. It was awesome! The play was in English. Almost everyone who was in it was an English speaker. It was a great adaptation, they added in funny lines, and even managed to pull it off completely Shomer Negiah (without any girls and guys touching), which was very impressive and creative (like when they had girls playing 1 of the 3 musketeers and the 4th musketeer. They had a bar scene where they had "girls and guys touching," but 2 girls touched the 2 musketeers who were girls, a guy played 1 of the girls in the bar so 2 guys were touching, and the last musketeer was just drinking and the girl was across the bar.) They also had a cell phone joke even though the story takes place in Middle Ages. On the way there, I discovered a really good hot dog place in the Jerusalem Tachanah Merkazit (Central Bus Station). In other news, I won a $50 gift certificate from Sports Illustrated for taking a survey and I worked on cropping feature of my project.
Thursday, June 15 - י"ט סיון: I was at the Machon Lev English Speakers' Program final banquet at Yosi Peking tonight. It's a good Chinese restaurant, it was a fun celebration of a great year, my last as Madrich! It was a little bittersweet, but I know I'll still be around. I walked back with some friends and we stopped at a gas station on the way back to buy a few 8-packs of water. There was a taxi there conveniently and asked if we were having some sort of party. No we were just stocking up on our way back from a party.
Friday, June 16 - כ' סיון: My friend Mondrow came over this morning. We checked out a potential apartment in the neighborhood (**it was ok, but I didn't end up taking end - I'm much happier with the 1 I took, Baruch Hashem). Then we headed out to Ir David to do some touring. They've done a lot more excavations since I was there last. Ir David, the City of David, is just south of where the Old City is today, but was part of the Old City during the 1st Temple (and 2nd too I think) period. It was where King David had his palace. You can see ruins and remains of a palace, as well as part of the Old City wall from that time. They've also found many artifacts, like coins. One of the most interesting things they found was the water tunnel that King Hezekiah built so that he could water into the Old City if some nation put a siege on it. The technology was very good back then apparently, because the water tunnels still have quite a bit of water flowing through them. Now however they are used as a tourist attraction - you walk through a pitch black, narrow tunnel with water between knee and waist high. It was a fun morning. When I came back to Machon Lev, I dipped in the Mikveh, did some laundry, and packed because I'm leaving right after Shabbat for my 1st summer vacation in America.
Shabbat, June 16-17 - כ"א סיון: I spent Shabbat with Mondrow. Friday night we went with my friend Eli from ESP to the Kotel to daven, then walked to Rav Machlis for dinner. Rav Machlis has at least 100 people packed into his house for every Shabbat meal, every Shabbat. He does amazing chessed (kindness). It is always an experience going there. There are also a lot of Divrei Torah and singing, so it is enjoyable and interesting. We davened at Gruss Shabbat morning, then ate lunch at my Israeli friend in Givat Mordechai, Moshe Cochavi and his wife and 3 kids. I hadn't seen them in quite a while since he's working now, but the last few years, he's helped a lot in Machon Lev - we were in class together. Se'udah Shlishit was with Mondrow, Nachman, Dan, and Eliyahu. Then Shabbat ended, we davened Ma'ariv, I finished packing quickly and went off to the airport. There 15 flights between 11 PM - 1:30 AM, 4 to JFK, 2 to Newark, 2 to Paris, 1 to Atlanta, Toronto, LA, Bangkok, and more. I've never seen the airport so crowded. On the way to the airport, it started to hit me that my tenure as madrich was really over. 3 years was a long time and it meant a lot to me, but now was no time to be sad, I was off to America for 3 weddings in 2 weeks.
Sunday, June 18 - כ"ב סיון: This trip to America was planned almost at the last minute. I had a free flight from El Al (from frequent flyer points) that I had to use up within a year. I could have used it next year at some point, but I don't know what my job situation will be like. It happens that I had 3 weddings in 2 weeks in America, the 2 weeks were not at a great time, but not such a bad time either, 1 of the friends is an especially good friend who I've inspired apparently, 1 is an old friend and gave me a chance to visit Pittsburgh, the other returned to his Chasidic roots and I wanted to see a Chasidic wedding. This trip also gave me a chance to spend a few days in San Francisco, which wasn't necessarily expected from the outset, but was in the back of my mind. So all that put together and I decided to take my free flight for these 2.5 weeks. I landed early this morning in JFK. The flight was great - I watched Firewall (great movie), good dinner, slept for 6+ hours, watched The Other Half (cute movie about soccer with the World Cup season), breakfast, then we landed. It was a long wait for my bags, then I met my parents. We made it back to Utopia in time to daven, then I had my traditional 1st meal back - Entenmann's Chocolate Chip Cookies and Tropicana Orange Juice. I went for new shoes this morning, as my old ones were starting to hurt and I have 3 weddings coming up. When I came back, I showered and I headed off to wedding #1 of 3 this trip - Amichai and Adina. This wedding was the main wedding for which I made this special vacation. Apparently I've inspired Amichai, between being his big brother in high school when I was a senior and he a freshman, starting the photography commission that allowed him to become official school photographer, being his madrich in Machon Lev and helping him out with some things. And in general we've been good friends, working together on MMe this year in particular, but just hanging out in general, in the neighborhood in NY and Israel. His wife also appreciated the effort I made to fly in. It was an amazing wedding - I was an Eid Chupah (witness to the giving of the ring and Ketubah), took almost 700 pictures, saw lots of old Flatbush friends. It meant a lot to them that I came and to me to be there. I got rides there and back with people from our shul (Mondrow and Katzman, respectively).
Monday, June 19 - כ"ג סיון: I went to Philadelphia today with Aaron to watch the Yankees lose to Phillies. My section (just in fair territory in right field) was over 90% Yankees fans and Giambi hit a home run 1 section over which was pretty exciting. I had some good Mr. Broadway on the way there. We missed a train coming back and ended up getting home really late, but it was fun as always.
Tuesday, June 20 - כ"ד סיון: I slept late today after the late night getting back from Philly. I did some dress shopping in the city with my parents, then went with them, Aaron, the Mandelkorns, and a bunch of people from our shul to a free Reds @ Mets game courtesy of my shul. It was a good game, the Mets won big with 4 home runs. And of course the Yankees won the night after I shlep to Philly.
Wednesday, June 21 - כ"ה סיון: I did more shopping today, then went out to eat with my parents - good chinese food. Amichai and Adina came over for their pictures tonight.
Thursday, June 22 - כ"ו סיון: Tonight I was at Yudi's (1 of the 2 main apartment guys of "the apartment guys" from Givat Mordechai - Kiryat Moshe) wedding in Brooklyn. I went with my friend Barry from the neighborhood (he was an apartment guy last year). It was a very special wedding, Chassidish, including a Mitzvah Tanz, and supposedly the Ba'al Shem Tov was there.
Shabbat, June 23-24 - כ"ח סיון: It was a nice, pleasant Shabbat with my parents in Queens. Unc, Uncle Joe, and Viv came Friday night. I got an Aliyah Shabbat morning to say HaGomel.
Sunday, June 25 - כ"ט סיון: I had a great dinner tonight with my parents and Unc - steak. Mmm... I watched and listened to bits and pieces of the Yankees afternoon win while eating and shopping with parents, and watched the end of the Yankees loss and great White Sox-Astros game tonight after dinner.
Monday, June 26 - ל' סיון: I was at Yankee Stadium to see Jason Giambi's 2 home runs and Randy Johnson's 9 K's, 0 runs, in a 5-2 win over the Braves. I went with Meir Mondrow, bought $20 tickets off scalpers, sat in $52 Tier Box seats for most of the game til the 7th inning stretch and Maariv, then moved down to even better seats (Main) right behind home.
Tuesday, June 27 - א' תמוז: This crazy vacation has a crazy twist - I went to San Francisco for 3 days, 2 nights! My dad had to go on business, I had old Delta SKyMiles to use up, and was able to stay in his office-paid hotel, so I joined him. We had different flights because he was on American (paid for by IRS) and I was on Delta, but our flights were only about an hour apart. We left early in the morning today, after not much sleep last night. I slept through most of the flight. When I landed, I went to wait for him. We met up and took the regional BART (Bay Area Rapid Transit) to downtown. We walked around and, without getting terribly lost, found our hotel (the Grand Hyatt). After lunch and phone calls, we headed out. We walked down Stockton St., past Union Square, to Market St. We turned up and walked to the Embarcadero. We followed that around until we got to AT&T Park for the Rangers @ Giants game. We watched some batting practice balls go over the right field fence and into the water, where a few people waited in canoes for the balls. Eventually we went in and watched some of batting practice down the RF line, where a few Rangers signed autographs. We sat in the front row of the upper deck in right field. We saw Barry Bonds get intentionally walked and double. The Giants won a very exciting game, with a bunch of Rangers getting ejected for arguing some very bad calls. We walked back from the stadium, past the Museum of Modern Art and a theater if I remember correctly.
Wednesday, June 28 - ב' תמוז: Today was my dad's conference. While he was out, I went on 2 tours. The first picked me up at my hotel and took me around all parts of San Francisco, including downtown, City Hall, the old Victorian homes, the Golden Gate Bridge (we rode over it), Golden Gate Park, Lucasfilms buildings and the old army base there, the planetarium that was built for a World's Fair, and a look out on a mountain which was totally covered by the famous summer San Francisco fog. The fog is caused by the cold Pacific Ocean water mixing with the warm air. It is around almost every day of the summer until the late afternoon heat burns it up. Makes for a nice effect sometime, but is very annoying at other times. The tour finished with Fisherman's Wharf and left me off there. I had about an hour and a half between tours to walk around and photograph the Wharf. I bought lunch at Ben and Jerry's (after late morning snack of potato chips by the bridge). I walked through the museum over there, by a bunch of crab places and the birthplace of sourdough bread, by the ships on the port, took in the whole scene, and finished off via Ghirardelli Square. The afternoon tour picked me up from a hotel a block away from Ghirardelli and went across the Golden Gate Bridge to the Muir Woods redwood forest. There was an Israeli couple on my van this trip who I talked to a little. We had a little over an hour to walk around the forest. The redwoods are enormous, as expected. I walked into the bark of a few of them and took a lot of pictures. The forest is way down below the mountains that surround it. Interesting how that works. From there, we went back up and out of the forest, and headed over to Sausalito. This is a port town where mostly wealthy people reside. Some even live in houseboats. Some houses are built on a mountain overlooking the water. The town has a great view of San Francisco and Alcatraz from the port. The tour brought me back to our hotel. By the time I got back, my dad's conference was over. We walked over to Powell and took the Powell-Hyde trolley to Lombard St., the crookedest street in the world, designed that way because all of San Francisco is steep and hilly and this way vehicles wouldn't lose control and start flying down. That is also a reason why the trolley is useful. From there we walked all the way up to the Coit Tower and took some great pictures. Then we walked down to Chinatown and ate at the only Kosher (Glatt) place downtown, a good meat place with lots of rabbis and Israel pictures hanging. The place is called Sabra, it's on top of a Chinese jewelry store, by the entrance to Chinatown. Very out of place. Then we took the F-line to Fisherman's Wharf and walked around there and Ghirardelli. It's pretty at night. When we got back, we went up to the top floor of our hotel and took pictures.
Thursday, June 29 - ג' תמוז: This morning we took the California Cable-car line a few blocks up, got lost, and eventually found the Cable-Car Museum. It's a small place, kind of tough to find, and we were rushing because we had early afternoon flights to catch, but it was worth going to. The cable cars are run from this building through heavy wiring along the street. The museum is small, but very interesting and informative. Cable-cars are fascinating, especially these old ones that still run the way they were many years ago. Then it was off to the airport. We flew over McAfee Coliseum, where the Oakland A's play, on our way up and out of the bay area. They were away otherwise we would've gone to a game there too. Again my flight left a little earlier than my dad's, and thus landed a little earlier. I saw some fireworks from the plane. It was raining at JFK and we were delayed a lot. We had to circle around the airport for close to an hour, then had to wait on the runway for different reasons (plane landing or taking off in front of us, but mainly planes were delayed taking off and there was a plane blocking our terminal that couldn't leave until it was cleared for takeoff) for over an hour. It was horrible. My dad also got delayed. Luckily there was an open Dunkin Donuts in the terminal where I got hot chocolate. We met up and went home. It was a really awesome, albeit short, vacation, and left me exhausted, as always. When we got home, my dad started looking at the International Jerusalem Post and found a half page picture of my back, covered by an Israeli flag, while I was taking a picture of Arabs behind a police barrier by 1 of the gates of Jerusalem, taken during the RikuDegalim (flag march) on Yom Yerushalayim (see last entry for details of that). AP took the picture of me taking a picture and JPost picked it up.
Shabbat, June 30-July 1 - ה' תמוז: My great aunt Cele and cousin Artie came over for dinner last night. This morning I was at a bar mitzvah (Sperber), followed by a nice kiddush. Some napping and learning in the afternoon. I went to see Click tonight with Aaron then spent almost an hour talking to him outside my house before finally going in.
Sunday, July 2 - ו' תמוז: Today I went with my parents, Unc, and some people from shul to Pittsburgh for a family friend's wedding - Judah Beck. Our families have been friends since we were both members of the same conservative shul (Hillcrest Jewish Center). We both became orthodox and are now members of the same orthodox shul (Utopia Jewish Center). I go way back with Judah - he led me in junior congregation at the conservative shul, and as I got older, I would read the Torah and help him out. Taxis picked us all up from outside the shul. We had a minyan in the airport after getting checked in and flew to Pittsburgh on JetBlue. It was my first time on JetBlue and only their 3rd day flying to the NY-Pittsburgh route. Vans driven by local Chabad rabbis picked us up from the airport and took us to the wedding. On the way we drove by the football and baseball stadium and the point where the 3 rivers meet. The wedding was in a gorgeous conservative shul. It was a lovely, Chabad wedding. We had to leave the wedding early to make our flight back, so of course our flight was delayed for over an hour. It gave me time to take pictures of the MLB All-Star Game decorations in the airport. Eventually we flew back, and again got stuck on the JFK runway because of rain. Never fly to JFK in the rain! This wasn't nearly as bad as last Thursday because JetBlue has satellite TV, including ESPN, and the Yankees were ripping the Mets on Sunday Night Baseball. JetBlue rocks! I also saw some fireworks from the plane during the flight. We had a Ma'ariv minyan in airport before leaving. Look at some of my pictures from the wedding: http://www.onlysimchas.com/galleries/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewgallery&SimchaID=51923&galleryid=33113&simchatypeid=0
Monday, July 3 - ז' תמוז: Today was a restful day, nice Sheva Brachot tonight for Judah and Maya (yesterday's wedding, this time in our neighborhood). I saw the sky flash but was too far away from Shea to see the fireworks. Finally some late night packing.
Tuesday, July 4 - ח' תמוז: I spent American Independence Day packing and flying back to Israel.
Wednesday, July 5 - ט' תמוז: I'm back in Israel! I landed this morning after a great and crazy vacation in the USA. Here are the stats: 3 weddings in 3 halls in 2 cities in 2 states; 4 baseball games in 4 stadiums in 3 cities (2 boroughs in NYC) in 3 states; 4 major cities (4 boroughs in nyc), 3 states; 6 plane rides in just over 16 days, saw a bunch of family and friends, did a lot of shopping, ate out a few times, took a lot of pictures, and slept very little. This afternoon I went to a friend's Tekes Kumta (beret ceremony when reaching a new level of the army) at Givat HaTachmoshet (Ammunition Hall) today. I got a ride back from there with a friend (Issac), for whom I brought stuff back from America. We got into a minor car accident on the bridge by Machon. Baruch Hashem everyone was fine, my friend's car wasn't damaged much. The other car got damaged a bit though.
Thursday, July 6 - י' תמוז: Nothing like getting a good night sleep the first night back with jetlag, and waking up at about 5:30 AM is definitely the way to do that. But as usual it was worth it - I was at the 1st Nefesh B'Nefesh aliyah flight welcome ceremony of the summer this morning (1st of 7 flights, 5 ceremonies - I'll be on the last one!). 2 people from my Yeshivah of Flatbush High School graduating class made Aliyah! Mazel Tov Frumie & Isaac! Some friends' family made aliyah also, I had reporter friends (Yishai & Malkah) on the flight, got interviewed by 2 Arutz-Sheva radio people (Yishai & Tamar), and took a lot of pictures, many of which you can find on Jacob Richman's site (scroll down to July 6): http://www.jr.co.il/pictures/israel/history/usa-aliyah.htm
Shabbat, July 7-8 - י"ב תמוז: A few Shabbat plans fell through and I hadn't prepared backups so I ended up spending my 1st Shabbat back in Israel around Machon Lev with Michael. It wasn't too bad - there were a few other Americans around and it was an alumni shabbaton so some old friends were around with wives and kids and Rosh and Vice Rosh Yeshivah were here. We davened at the Bayit Vegan Carlebach minyan Friday night, dinner, Shacharit, lunch, Minchah, and Ma'ariv at Machon, Seudah Shlishit in my room with my roommate. I got a bit of much-needed sleep, did some learning, played some Set, chess, and backgammon. It was a very relaxing Shabbat.
Sunday, July 9 - י"ג תמוז: My team won tonight's pick-up softball game by 2 runs (20ish-18ish) and I went 4-10. Ah softball - who would've thought that I'd have to wait until I came back to Israel for that?
Monday, July 10 - י"ד תמוז: I read the Torah and did Birkat HaGomel this morning. My planned 1.5 hour nap lasted 4 hours, but I needed it. I did some errands at the mall. Lots of phone calls tonight, some with friends, others about apartments, we'll see what happens there. I also wrote a passionate email about Aliyah unexpectedly tonight in response to an email I got from someone asking if aliyah was all its cracked up to be. I'm not staying up to watch the 1st ever live webcast of the home run derby because I'm tired. I'll catch the highlights in the morning.
Here's that Aliyah email:
Aliyah is probably not all it's cracked up to be. But that does not mean you shouldn't do it. Aliyah is not always easy, it's easier for some and harder for others. Israel tends to have a bureaucracy and sometimes it is tough to deal with different things. Sometimes Israelis can be rude and pushy. You may also get angry at the government and court system depending on your political views. As with anywhere else in the world, you will have to find a job at some point and that may not be easy. Even though you can often get by in English, if your Hebrew isn't so good, it makes life here a bit harder. </div>
But you're not making aliyah for an easy life, you're making aliyah for a meaningful life. As annoying as Israelis can be, as frustrating as the bureaucracy can be, at the end of the day, you're living in Israel, the country Hashem promised us, the country we've returned to after 2,000 years of exile, fulfilling prophecies in our Tanach, a beautiful country which has a little of everything from skiing to swimming, from desert to mountains to sea, the Holiest place in the world, the places where our ancestors walked or yearned to walk, national holidays are Jewish holidays, Christmas and Easter sales are Chanukah and Pesach sales, the overwhelming majority of people are Jewish. You'll meet a very diverse crowd of people, some very nice people, some who will touch your heart. You'll be doing a mitzvah - Mitzvat Yishuv Ha'Aretz.
And though you might make less money here, you'd face some of the above problems in other countries as well. At least in Israel, you're doing something important and meaningful which you can always feel good about even when times are rough. So aliyah on the outside may not always be all it's cracked up to be and can sometimes be very difficult, but maybe deep down it's more than it's cracked up to be.
I hope this helps you.
By the way, I've been living in Israel on a student visa for 5 years and at the end of the summer, I'm finally making aliyah officially. I'm 23.
Tuesday, July 11 - ט"ו תמוז: David Wright 22 hrs, very impressive, but the Phillies provide the winner again. I watched some great HR Derby highlights this morning. I was at a Nefesh B'Nefesh wine and cheese party for under 35ers at the Rose Garden in Talbieh to welcome the new young olim from last week's flight and get to meet new and recent young olim. It was a fun night, I saw some friends, and met some new people.
Wednesday, July 12 - ט"ז תמוז: Today was a very good day Baruch Hashem! Great all star game last night! Too bad I was too tired and had to much to do today to stay up and watch it. I watched the highlights this morning. David Wright is awesome, but the AL wins again. Wow! I checked out an awesome apartment this morning that I will probably take tomorrow morning - kitchen, dining room, living room, 3 bedrooms, 2 full baths, porch, view, $700 + tax, maintenance, and utilities. **I did take it and it is awesome! I did some errands in town this afternoon, followed by the upsherin of boy terror victim - the family all miraculously survived a suicide bomb on a bus that left the Kotel 3 years ago, when he was 1 month old. I was only amateur/pro photographer around so I got hired on the spot. It was a nice and emotional affair in the Kotel plaza. Thanks to Rabbi Hirtz of UJC for telling me about it and Torah Tidbits for reminding me. Then I davened at the Kotel. When I came back, I got a surprise visit from my old friend Moshe Gorman, and ordered good New Deli before the fast.
Thursday, July 13 - י"ז תמוז: PRAY FOR THE JEWS OF ERETZ YISRAEL!!! - the war has escalated from kassams to katyushas and abduction of soldiers! The fast wasn't bad, I was too busy following the news to notice it. There's a war going on with rockets falling everywhere from the Golan down to Haifa, and we're bombing the crap out of Lebanon. Anyone wanna tell Olmert, "we told you so!"? I just hope people learn from this B"H, with G-d's Help. I met the guy who will probably become my new landlord tonight after breaking my fast. We spoke a bit, there were some issues with guarantor, but IY"H I'll sign within the next few days to rent a really nice apartment for the next year in Givat Mordechai.
Friday-Shabbat, July 14-15 - י"ח-י"ט תמוז: As katyushas fell all over northern Israel, I spent shabbat, my 23rd secular birthday, in safe Kiryat Arba - Chevron with Ruthi's Yesha Experiences. The neighboring Arabs shot off lots of firecrackers / fireworks to celebrate the katyushas, but very few gunshots and no bombs. Strange how world news misses these Arab celebrations? On friday, we visited nearby, interesting, creative hilltop settlements. These people have such Mesirut Nefesh - devotion! The first stop was the Driben farm, with amazing artistry and cool people - an old couple (70s) who just got married 3 years ago. The son of the husband from an old marriage was killed in a terrorist attack. The husband was actually an American air force pilot back in the 1940s or 1950s. When he settled outside Kiryat Arba, he turned an industrial hangar into a home, animal stable, guest house, and a room to work, which for him is making saddles. His wife is in an artist and she painted everything - gorgeous! Even the mezuzot are artistic - they are little shofars from baby animals. Our next stop was Shechunat Gal, which is a hilltop overlooking the Driben farm. They are building a 3rd structure there now, but somehow they were managing to make a bar mitzvah there that Shabbat. One structure was very unique - it is a house made of an old bus, shipping container, and industrial caravan. The living room can be converted into a shul, the walls are painted by Mrs. Driben from the farm, but the coolest part by far is the kids bus - there is a kitchen area, a bunch of little beds, and a bathroom in the front of the bus, where the toilet seat is opposite the steering wheel so the kids can pretend to drive while on the toilet. We davened Minchah at our next stop, Hill 26, where the Ozeri family lived until the husband / father was killed, and less than a month later, in the cold of a winter night, the family was expelled and their house was bulldozed. This was all after building their own house on a barren hilltop with stone from the area. You can't even tell the house was there - it just looks like strewn stone from the area. Every Friday, Kiryat Arba and Chevron residents go to the hill to daven Minchah to show that they still own it and intend to move there. Our last stop was the house of artist Baruch Nachshon in Kiryat Arba. He has some unique and gorgeous things. It was an awesome Shabbat, crazy Carlebach Kabalat Shabbat with Breslov Rosh Yeshivah and chasidim in Me'arat HaMachpelah. I also davened there this morning. There were 2 families with cute kids to play with and 1 of my friend's family was there (though without my friend who is in NY) with his young Kahanist brother, so they were a lot of fun to play with and talk to over Shabbat. Miriam Levinger, 1 of the women who holed up in Beit Hadassah in Chevron before Jews were allowed to return there (for something like 9 months around 1979-80 without electricity or much water, which led to our return to Chevron) spoke to us. That was followed by a tour of Chevron, led by my friend, Chevron English spokesman, David Wilder. I spoke to him about jobs during the tour (**I have to contact him again sometime soon). After Shabbat, on the bus ride back, a girl who was on the shabbaton (probably about my age) approached me about a shidduch. It was an amazing weekend, and it was very special to spend the Shabbat before acquiring my 1st ever property in Eretz Yisrael (renting an apartment) in the place where the 1st Jew, Avraham, acquired the 1st Jewish property (Me'arat HaMachpelah) in Eretz Yisrael.
Sunday, July 16 - כ' תמוז: For the 1st time in about 10 months, we packed the field, actually overflowing 10 on 9 for softball tonight. I went 1-4 with some nice defense in our 14-5 loss. On the secular calendar, I was born on July 15, 1983, 10:06 PM NY time, which was July 16, 1983, 5:06 AM Israel time. Since I'm in Israel, I have an excuse to celebrate both days. Of course my real Jewish birthday isn't til Av 6 (July 31 this year).
Monday, July 17 - כ"א תמוז: I signed for my 1st ever apartment in Eretz Yisrael tonight!!! After sorting out issues with collateral / guarantor (my cousin agreed), I finally signed for a really nice apartment. B"H I'll go there with the owner tomorrow to get the key. Then in the spirit of collateral, I watched the movie with that title tonight to celebrate. Among other things I did today - gave counseling to a friend in need and checked out an apartment for a friend in NY (Chaya). Today-tomorrow's Tiverya - Golan overnight tiyul with Michael has been postponed due to war. Unfortunately we did not get a chance to make it up this summer. Maybe next year...
Tuesday, July 18 - כ"ב תמוז: I checked out the apartment and storage room, and started transferring utilities, to be finished iy"H tomorrow. Crazy unsuccessful bank story this morning - I forgot my passport, went back and forth, then got there as it closed, then came back and realized that the money I wanted wasn't available until tomorrow anyway. Shmuel came over today, and I spent over an hour just talking to some friends in the dorms tonight.
Wednesday, July 19 - כ"ג תמוז: I got my key! I have an apartment! Rechov Heller 7, Apt #16, Givat Mordechai, Jerusalem, 93725. You're all invited to visit! I met with my cousin and the apartment owner to sign the guarantor contract today and pay the 2nd half of the 1st payment, and, Baruch Hashem finally made it official. I did what needed to be done at the bank today, as well as a lot of learning between bus rides and waiting. An Israeli friend came over today. I gave him lots of mp3's in return for decent binoculars. Tonight I called the girl who was recommended to me Motzaei Shabbat on the Shabbaton, and it was a fun call. Then I watched a Growise Jewish movie with Michael and my roommate while eating New Deli.
Thursday, July 20 - כ"ד תמוז: Awesome Nefesh B'Nefesh welcoming ceremony early this morning - 1 of my apartment-mates arrived (Nisan), an old Flatbush friend (Asher Orkaby), 3 friends siblings (Lizzy, Naava, and Tiffany & Jeremy), 2 other acquaintances, and more, 240 total. Check out some of my pictures from the welcome ceremony - http://www.jr.co.il/pictures/israel/history/usa-aliyah.htm, scroll down to July 20. After eating, getting more keys, emailing pictures, and collapsing for a while from exhaustion, I went to Meah Shearim with Nisan. We bought 4 bed frames, American style twin mattresses for $475 including shipping. You can't beat Meah Shearim prices. I ate dinner at Sbarro in the mall and did some shopping tonight with Michael.
Arutz-Sheva's story about Nefesh B'Nefesh:
250 N. American Jews Move to Israel Despite War By Ezra HaLevi
A record-setting year of North American Aliyah continued Thursday, with a plane full of immigrants touching down at Ben Gurion Airport. They were not deterred by the war and some are going up north. Email subscribers, click here to view the photos that accompany this article
In what organizers have billed "the ultimate solidarity mission," hundreds of Jews from North America chose to pack their bags and leave the comfort and stability of the United States and Canada for the rocketed State of Israel Thursday.
The olim [new immigrants to Israel] were greeted by former Prime Minister Binyamin Netanyahu, Efrat’s Chief Rabbi Shlomo Riskin, who himself came on Aliyah more than two decades ago together with many members of his congregation, Nefesh b'Nefesh co-founder Rabbi Yehoshua Fass, and representatives of the Jewish Agency and the Absorption Ministry.
"Israel is not Disneyland. We don't just come to Israel when it is fun and sun," said Rabbi Riskin. “Israel is our motherland - we come to our mother when she needs us."
"Israel needs you," Riskin added, "but it is a two-way street - each of you also needs Israel. What anyone does in the Diaspora is a footnote in our history, what is being written here is the chapter heading."
Rabbi Fass recalled the Jewish tribes of Gad, Reuven and Menashe, who requested of Moses to be able to stay east of the Jordan River as the Jewish nation crossed into the Land of Israel. “They told him, ‘We like our comfortable houses and we don’t want to go,’” Fass said. “And Moses asked them, ‘How can you break the hearts of your brothers and sisters in Israel?’ You olim who are standing here today have mended our hearts and are making the hearts of our nation complete.”
Knesset opposition leader MK Netanyahu pointed to the crowd, saying, “You are the best answer to Hizbullah!” He added that Aliyah is the very essence and lifeline of Zionism, “which never envisioned a world where people would stop attacking us, but a world where we would defend ourselves… build cities and create industry.”
Asked later by reporters about the security situation, Netanyahu said it is critical that the fighting in the north continue until all of Hizbullah’s rockets are destroyed, “so they do not fall on these new olim.”
Many of the immigrants are, in fact, moving up north. Two families are moving to the Galilee and one to Haifa, and several young people will be learning Hebrew and working as part of a gar’in (community nucleus) at Kibbutz Kfar HaNassi, near Rosh Pina.
Kfar HaNassi has been hit by Katyusha rockets in the recent bombardments by Hizbullah, but young idealists Keren Engoltz, 18, from Albany, Yair Koenig, 25, from Woodmere, New York, and Moti Tufeld, 18, from Boston refused to postpone their Aliyah and are eager to arrive in their new home. “I can’t wait,” said Liat, from Forest Hills, New York, who is also going to Kfar HaNassi. “We are going to be picking avocados, lychees and grapefruits.”
The way the core-group method of Aliyah works is that a number of people meet regularly while still in their home country to plan and develop a bond between themselves. Gar’in Tzabar (literally, the Cactus Nucleus, referring to native Israelis) comprises several core-groups, of which the Kfar HaNassi group is one. “We plan on studying Hebrew for three months while volunteering on the kibbutz,” Engoltz says,” after which we each go to our preferred service within the army.” After that, the group will see each other during furloughs and when they are spending Sabbath back at the kibbutz. “It is a great way to make Aliyah,” Yair says as he heads toward the bus bringing the new olim to collect their bags.
Arielle Listoken is making Aliyah to join her Israeli fianc? in Jerusalem. The wedding is in October and Listoken (soon to share the last name Achdut, meaning unity, with her husband) says that in the meantime, “all the Jews back in America should get their butts over here.”
19-year-old Laura Kessous came to Israel on a ten-day Birthright trip, after which she called her mother and told her she didn't want to come home. She eventually agreed to come back to finish high school. Now she is back for good and will continue her studies at Tel Aviv University. "My mother came to Israel on a visit from Morocco when she was younger, telling her parents the same thing. So I am just following in my mother's footsteps," she explains.
As usual, Wednesday’s flight heralded many family reunifications. Nachum Kligman came to Israel on the first Nefesh B’Nefesh flight in 2002. “My younger brother came a year later,” he says, “and today my parents are finally coming.”
Shabbat, July 21-22 - כ"ה-כ"ו תמוז: It was an awesome, very pleasant, relaxing Shabbat, full of Torah and singing, at the Carlebach Moshav, Mevo Modi'im. I went with Michael Mondrow - his 1st time - and another friend of his from Technion. We stayed by Rabbi and Rebbetzin Trugman's house, where we always stay with Machon Lev. I gave them pictures from my 4 previous Shabbatons there after the last 1 I was at with Machon Lev. They posted a bunch of my pictures online - http://www.thetrugmans.com/gallery2/v/Moshav+Views - and thanked and complimented me so much. They were very impressed. Rabbi Trugman has written 3 great books that you should order - http://www.thetrugmans.com/trugman_books.shtml
Sunday, July 23 - כ"ז תמוז: Another great softball game tonight. I was 3-6 with some nice defense in our last inning win. I bought some mezuzot and light bulbs for the apartment today, Nisan did some painting, and I met with the owner to get another set of keys and go over things that need to be fixed up. So far, so good. Estimated time for moving in - end of the week! Machon lev and Yeshiva University Gruss Kollel are hosting about 15 families from the north because of the situation up there. The Chadar Ochel has been going out of its way to accomodate them since Shabbat. It's touching to see the Achdut (unity) of the Am Yisrael (the nation of Israel). Sometimes it takes a war to bring that out. I'm proud to be part of such an institution. **By the time I left, there were at least 40 families being put up, if not more. Many other yeshivot and colleges did things like this.
Monday, July 24 - כ"ח תמוז: I put up my 1st Mezuzah in Eretz Yisrael tonight - it was an exciting Brachah! Then I went out for an awesome night - a ~3 hours date around Gan Sacker with the girl who I was . It went very well. I really liked her. **But she decided to go to America for medical school. Dissappointing.
Excerpts from conversations with friends about her. You can choose to ignore if you want. I put this mostly for myself. MSStein24 (01:02:50): actually she was quite cute. my height, skinny, nice face, etc... probably the best looking or at least 2nd best of the 6 i've gone out with this yr MSStein24 (01:03:41): yup i agree. she's studying for a masters in neuro-biology at hebrew u, researching a part of the brain to lead to a cure for parkinsons MSStein24 (01:03:44): so she's smart MSStein24 (01:04:04): she plays softball and her dad is a baseball fan azs (01:04:09): nice azs (01:04:13): where is she from MSStein24 (01:04:15): american, family made aliyah to maaleh adumim 9 yrs ago MSStein24 (01:04:34): born in kgh, moved to miami when she was 1, lived there til 14, came here azs (01:04:53): ah cool azs (01:04:55): age azs (01:04:57): urs? MSStein24 (01:05:01): our age MSStein24 (01:05:07): 2 months older than me or thereabouts azs (01:05:19): shaina is 9 older than me MSStein24 (01:06:19): sweet, fun, always busy like me, friendly, animated, obviously religious, also right wing, likes photography, her dad is comp programmer so she's natural with computers MSStein24 (01:07:23): only prob - she's vegetarian, but other than that, she's a top prospect. i'm very interested. i hope she felt the same way azs (01:07:26): and how well did u click azs (01:07:28): thats ok. MSStein24 (01:07:33): pretty well azs (01:07:41): if ur worst problem is that she is a vegetarian.... azs (01:07:43): seriously. MSStein24 (01:07:50): conversation flowed for close to 3 hrs and could've been longer if it wasn't getting late azs (01:08:09): wonderful. azs (01:08:16): give it a day... azs (01:08:19): but be agressive.. azs (01:08:31): if you like someone so much off the bat and you want more... MSStein24 (01:08:42): right that's what i'm saying. ok also she thinks bike riding in israel is crazy bc of the drivers, but besides that and vegetarian, she seems great, and neither of those seem to be seriously problems, so we'll see. b"H azs (01:08:54): there is no reason to let things sit MSStein24 (01:08:58): i'll wait a day, maybe call again wed azs (01:09:04): what.... riding a bike ? MSStein24 (01:09:10): yeah azs (01:09:15): she doesn't like to ride MSStein24 (01:09:16): just came up in conversaton azs (01:09:24): or wouldn't like u riding? MSStein24 (01:09:26): she did in america but she's afraid to here bc of drivers MSStein24 (01:09:29): i love riding --- MSStein24 (14:51:22): date went pretty well i think MSStein24 (14:51:28): we spent close to 3 hrs walking around MSStein24 (14:51:39): she's really cool, i like her MSStein24 (14:51:51): cute, sweet, smart MSStein24 (14:52:15): she's doing brain research for masters in neuro biology MSStein24 (14:52:29): her dad is a programmer and they have a whole network with server in their house in maaleh adumim dsg (14:52:51): nice MSStein24 (14:52:52): she likes to play softball MSStein24 (14:53:02): her dad is baseball fan dsg (14:53:48): is she taller then you MSStein24 (14:54:16): she was fun and animated and stuff, always busy with stuff, like me MSStein24 (14:54:23): about same height dsg (14:54:28): nice MSStein24 (14:54:32): she's like 2 months older
Tuesday, July 25 - כ"ט תמוז: I finally transferred the last utility, water, to my name, and went for a drive with old lessee to get a new Shabbat clock and watched some wood cutting (she had some done) in the process. I was at a big prayer rally at the Kotel tonight with Rav Ovadiah Yosef and chief rabbis - something often done in times such as these, specifically on Erev Rosh Chodesh. I went with Michael, met Shmuel, came back and showed Michael and Dov my new apartment. |
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